Hi stranger.. thats probably what your thinking at the moment.. i know i know... its been ages ive posted up anything! im sorry for vanishing even if i dont make a significant difference to your life but you just read my blog post for fun! If you want to know ways i stay happy or think are the best ways to stay happy in the inside and out! then keep reading!
Now is Nay telling me to change in order to be happy? how could she?! omg!? ... no... just no... im not telling you that you need change im telling you to change your perspective in things like a particular situation you are and the way you take it ...change the people around you if they are negative and bringing out the sadness in you LET IT GOOOO LET IT GOOOO , you dont need people like that around you , you need positivity the more positive people the happier you are cause you have people that accept you around you! ....have a boyfriend or someone you like whos birnging you down?... ask yourself is he really worth every drop of tears... is he there crying or peacefully asleep? why isnt he making you happy instead your there sad, upset, unhappy? .... tell him you need to switch things up or your out , cause you deserve better! much much better!..... dont like your daily routine? have lunch or a day out or night out once in a while have timings in which you do something you enjoy!
Now there is nothing wrong in being alittle selfish at times i think we spend so much time doing things to make sure others are happy and this is only because we dont think about ourselves so sometimes be selfish give yourself a day do something you enjoy not because anyone has told you but because it makes YOU happy .... get your nails done .... go shopping with a best friend ... have a girls night in or night in for yourself with alot of snacks and movies!... go for a long walk ... get a take away rather than making something like you always do... give yourself a day! .. or better spend a day with your special someone have a nice dinner movie etc etc .. now the other side too this!... think you do so much for yourself?.... do something for someone you love show appreciation , it can even be for a stranger...give a homeless person some food for the inner happiness the joys you get doing that.. the smile and blessing they give you! itll make you glow and even the blessing you get from a loved one for doing something nice! a surprise for your special someone! a gift for the mum or dad ? anything!
If changing the way you look makes you feel happy do it! everyone needs a change! do not tell me that a new hair cut has not made you feel like a whole new person?( besides the 15 inches they cut off in "accident" lol) jokes apart make up a new dress new hair colour or hairstyle you've tried , new lipstick you've bought and just tried on new heels and for the men! new cuffs new jacket new blazer new shoes new hairstyle anything! wear it on a night out SASS THINGS UP! if you feel good about yourself and your appearance you'll instantly feel happy inside and out!
we all have alot going on and we all need a time out from ... EVERYTHING!... so book a holiday whether it be far far away abroad or just in the same country! getting away having some peaceful YOUtime is always thereuptic so when your back to your usual habitat your more calm relaxed ready to take things on as youve cleared away all the stress on the time out youve had from exams... from work... from relationship issues ... so go on get away for a while ... leave the stress behind and lay back! this will make you happy inside and out
What better can you do than be yourself in order to find happiness inside and out!... be yourself do not and i mean seriously do not go change for anyone it does not matter who the hell they are if they are trying to change you they clearly do not love or care for the person you actually are they are modelling a person they want! BE YOURSELF! be cray cray be hyper be energetic be outgoing be beautiful be how you were born ... not how you were MADE ... your a human not modelling clay that someone will come and make you into something they want! they have to accept you for who you are.... your not less than perfect plus being perfect is f***ing boring!!! promise yourself today you will never change yourself for anyone! and you will be yourself and amaze the world! ...... thats the day youll find your inner happiness .... the day you find yourself being you...
I hope you enjoyed this post my lovelies! i hope it helped in anyway possible and if not then i hope you just enjoyed reading it! stay tuned for my medical catch up and how my hospital days went! Let me no how you liked the post! through DM or email !
Love Nay! x x
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